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The Cookie Swap Disaster Averted

 

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I am sure that you all have your own examples of potential holiday calorie disasters, they’re everywhere! In fact, just last week I received an invitation to a cookie swap. My point in passing along my story is to emphasize that even just one event can undo a lot of hard work on your calorie management. As in past years, I received an invitation to the season’s first cookie swap. What a great way to dive into the holiday season, get together with friends, and share recipes, so I sent my RSVP with a resounding “Yes, I will be there!” What was I thinking? The whole intent of this event was to send us all home with thousands of calories in cookies. It was a calorie disaster waiting to happen. Many of us are faced with this type of invitation for food and fun during the holidays. For me, saying “no” can feel pretty depriving because I really enjoy these festivities. Because of that, saying no is not always easy. So hopefully this story provides some moral support for any of you who are struggling with decisions to indulge during the holidays.

 

I went to the cookie swap. If you’ve been to an event like this before, you know that the worst part is not the party, but coming home with dozens of goodies. I was telling myself that “I deserve it” and “it’s the holidays after all”… but really, I was also thinking, “this is going to be a disaster.” Remember, no kids left at home – just my husband to share these calories with me. So, with HMR on my shoulder, I decided to close up the cookies, and take them to my scale! I had to know just how bad it was going to be. Just in case you’re curious – I had 6 pounds of cookies! 12,000 calories! Talk about a wake-up call.

I actually found a way to quickly donate my cookies and get them out of my house. But this is obviously a pretty risky approach. My advice is to find ways to enjoy the holidays and celebrate with healthy alternatives. Invite friends and family to join you in your environment where you have much more control over what is served. In the days that followed, I stayed focused on what my husband and I are doing to protect our health and our weight. We had our HMR Turkey Chili for dinner one night. We spent a few fun hours together in the kitchen making a huge pot of vegetable soup to last for several dinners, and we have kept our evening walks in place. I am already thinking ahead to the next two weeks and realize that the task is still daunting. I’m plotting my strategies for a low-calorie finish to the year. What plans are you making to support your weight and health into the New Year?

 

 

 

by AJDiet on 12/11/2012 | Share Story With a Friend

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About the Author

Anne Jones

Anne came to HMR as a health educator in 1990. Since that time Anne has worked with the development team for the HMR at Home Program and provides support to HMR programs as an account manager and trainer. Anne is an avid walker and also loves to explore low calorie cooking.

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You all have such helpful strategies to share! Being proactive with your environment along with the support you have from family and friends can be a powerful combination to keep on track with your weight and health.
by AJDiet on 12/14/2012
I was invited to a cookie party and knew it would be very challenging for me to not eat a lot of cookies and cookie dough while I was there. I ended up bringing a gingerbread house to decorate, and that kept me busy while at the party. This kept me away from sampling cookie dough and snacking. I was still able to talk to people and I had a lot of fun. My husband joined me, so he helped me with the gingerbread house and kept me occupied. I also brought 2 cups of celery and I had myself finish the gingerbread house and eat the celery before I let myself sample any cookies and snacks. I ended up only taking one of each cookie home. I had a successful time keeping my calories low when I was at the party, but it took a lot of planning for me to not over-indulge.
by EstherH11 on 12/13/2012
I was invited to a dear friend's family cookie baking event. My husband passed away in July and everyone is being so kind about including me in their celebrations--my friends are very aware of my 33 lb weight loss---I started HMR 3 weeks after my Roger passed away......SOOOO....she said "we won't encourage you to eat cookies and I will have chai tea for you to drink...no calories!" It was a very sweet gesture and I took a scone made with the HMR cereal--I enjoyed their company and got to be a part of the holiday spirit. Having supportive friends and family can be so important at this time of year! I hope some of you are as lucky as I am and have a supportive environment this holiday season!
by spring216 on 12/12/2012
I will be getting together with my girlfriends to bake cookies for shuti-ins from our church. We always leave with a plate for our own homes. Since I know she won't have time to bake, mine will be headed straight to my daughters freezer for the events she is hosting.
by VivianL on 12/12/2012