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PA Your Way Out of a Hard Day!

 

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One recent morning I woke up feeling completely tired and overwhelmed with what was on my plate for the day. My husband was traveling for the week and I was responsible for getting all 3 of my little girls to school, then exercise, go to work and then pick up the girls in the afternoon and start our whole evening routines before crashing into bed just a mere 15 hours later. It was enough to make me feel like crying!

 

I went about my morning rituals as I always do and the thought hit me that, because of how I’m feeling today and how stressed out I am, I could maybe…just….um… skip the gym today (just today) and give myself a little break. The more I thought about it (change the baby’s diaper) and thought about it (find 5-year-old’s lost matching sock) and thought about it (thwart incoming 7-year-old crying fit because she doesn’t want to go to school today) the idea seemed better and better to me. In fact, it sounded so good that by the time I got everyone out and into the car I was feeling much better with my decision to skip my workout. Ooh, maybe I can take a nap – or Ahh, I could even get an hour Starbucks break before heading to work! (The time usually spent at the gym before work). And I wouldn’t have to worry about getting sweaty and taking an extra shower! The stress lifted from my soul.

As I kissed my last little darling goodbye and sent her off to school I felt a pang of guilt. “I have to go to the gym, don’t I?” I thought to myself. “I can’t just skip an entire workout! Where will I make that up?" The decision anxiety came swirling back and forth until I swatted it away once and for all with an “Ok already, I’ll just go!”

About 10 minutes into my workout, a wonderful calm yet powerful feeling washed over me. I felt energized, revved up, and the anxiety and overwhelm that I had felt that morning literally melted away. It was remarkable. Yet not, because this is what ALWAYS happens after about 10-15 minutes into a workout. It’s the anticipation of exercising that is always the worst. Moreover, what was even starker to me as I pounded through the hour on the elliptical was that I felt poised, no, make that completely ready, to face the rest of the day’s events. Totally ready to tackle it head on and have a wonderful day. Can you imagine? If someone were to tell me at home that morning that in just 10-15 minutes of starting my exercise regime I would have a completely different outlook on my day, I would have told them that they were crazy and to please go away. Because that’s how it feels in the moment sometimes right? Completely insurmountable. Until you get started.

The lesson of that day? You can PA your way out of an overwhelming day and feel amazing even 12-15 hours later. I have the proof. I even had enough energy that day for an extra book for each little girl at bedtime that night. What nap or Starbucks break can beat that? None that I can think of!
 

 

 

by jennyb on 01/07/2013 | Share Story With a Friend

tags: Weight-Loss, motivation, exercise, mood, mommy blog

About the Author

jennyb

Jenny has been a health educator at HMR since 2002, helping patients build healthier lifestyles and lose weight. She has 3 little girls at home and uses all the skills she’s learned at HMR to be a role model to them while at the same time making living a healthy lifestyle lots of fun!

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Wow, totally get this and it is a great reminder! I have 3 yr old twins and my day is very similar. Adding 1 hr min workouts first thing means I get up at 4:30 or 5 am, but it is my time, and it helps me to have the energy to make it through the day. I had to take a day off from the gym on Sunday, and I felt much worse! My husband tells my kids that mommy is at the gym and, it makes her happy to go there :)
by 2urbanist on 01/08/2013
This is SO true! I get my PA done in the morning before work, and on Wednesdays I need to be ready to go by 8am. This means I'm up at 5 in order to get in my workout. UGH! What gets me there week after week is knowing full well that getting out of bed and through the first 15 minutes of my day (not even my workout!) will literally stand me in good stead for the next 13+ hours. Nothing else has that much power over my whole day! We never regret doing it, we only regret not doing it.
by Parker on 01/07/2013
Thank you, thank you, Jenny! My husband works out of town Mon thru Fri, so you just described a typical day in my life! My very first HMR class is this evening, and with all the hassle of figuring out dinner and a babysitter, let alone when in the world I'm gonna work PA into this chaos, I was already regretting putting yet another activity on my plate, so to speak. Bless you for reminding me how important it is to push myself to JUST GET STARTED. That truly is the hardest part of most endeavors. Great article.
by SanibelSarah on 01/07/2013